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Rav Daniel Dombroff
Parent’s and school’s financial responsibilities
Costs of living in the frum community are rising every year. Along with regular expenses, the cost of yeshiva tuition is also an increasing financial burden. Likewise, many schools are struggling with financial challenges and are having difficulty making ends meet. How can they pay their teachers when the parents do not pay tuition fees?
What are the halachic considerations in collecting tuition from parents? And how far must parents go in order to pay their obligation?
Can the school act aggressively in collecting tuition?
לא תהיה כנושה ‘Thou shalt not be as a creditor’.
There is an issur, a biblical proscription, of exerting excess pressure on one’s debtor. Does this apply to pressuring parents to pay tuition?
The Kesef Kodshim rules that the above prohibition is limited to loans. However, when the yeshiva grants an extension of the tuition payment, it may, at that point acquire the status of a loan, triggering the restriction of excess pressure. Furthermore, this prohibition is unique in that its only where it’s certain to the lender that the borrower doesn’t have the means to pay and we don’t apply the regular rule of “safek deoraisa lchumra” (one must stringent when in doubt regarding a biblical prohibition).
Using a Collection Agency
If the school is unable to collect tuition, are they permitted to turn the debt over to a collection agency?
The Rema is stringent, not allowing use of a gentile to collect a debt. The Rema, however, in the Darchei Moshe, his remarks on the Tur, allows selling a financial obligation to a gentile. The Tumim also allows using a gentile to collect where the other party is a gavra alima (a difficult individual). A practical means, perhaps, of efficiently collecting the tuition may be to publicize the delinquency if the other party is uncooperative. Certainly one should consult with rabbinic guidance before exercising this option.
Punishing the Children
If the tuition is not paid up and the parents are in arrears, may the child be sent home from yeshiva?
The community is obligated to create a school. If a parent cannot afford tuition, the community should provide for that individual. (The Vilna Gaon explains that this is an obligation of Tzedaka.) The Shulchan Aruch Harav says that this obligation should be split in the community according to wealth.
It needs to be determined if our current school system can be called a community school, or are they private institutions? There are a number of halachic differences that evolve depending on whether the schools are public or private.
If they are perceived to be private institutions, one could argue that raising funds for parents who cannot pay tuition is not an obligation of the school, but an obligation of the entire community. The leaders of the community should arrange funding for such parents thus avoiding the terrible consequences of a child being sent away from school and learning.
However, if we view the schools as a fulfilment of the communal obligation, then we can suggest that the school board, or leaders within the school of some other capacity, have taken over the responsibility of ensuring that every child merits a proper Torah education. It goes without saying, that there must be a consistency as far as how the schools project themselves.
Overextending the Parents
How far are the parents obligated to extend themselves in order to pay their tuition fees?
Paying tuition should be treated with at least as much respect as any other financial obligation. (If a person is truly in need of Tzedaka, see the previous section for the details.) As far as bal talin is concerned (the obligation for one to pay their financial obligation in a timely manner on the day of service), it is necessary for us to determine if the service provided by the school is like that of a worker, or considering that one is not paying the teacher directly, we would view it like a sale of goods in which case bal talin would not apply. Furthermore, if the school obligates the parents to pay in the beginning of the month, that may also cause us to view the service provided by the school as a sale (as a worker is generally paid at the completion of the job) and therefore there will not be an issue of bal talin. However, once the month ends perhaps it transforms at that point into an obligation for the work, thus invoking bal talin.
The discussion on paying tuition debts can be an emotional and heated one. It is important to remember the halachic rulings for every step in the tuition collection process. This article is intended for educational purposes only, and when practically relevant, one should contact a competent Halachic authority.