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Rabbi Shmuel Honigwachs
Question: If someone sends me a 25-page halachic shtar in an email and instructs me to read and confirm it, do I actually have to read it? Can I just trust the Dayan who wrote the shtar and say that I confirm it without actually reading it?
Answer: I would not recommend that. One should try to read the entire shtar. But I believe that the real intention of the document is that one should agree to be bound by the shtar. One is not obligated to read it in its entirety; therefore, I don’t believe one would transgress the prohibition of “midvar sheker tirchak” to say it is confirmed without having read it.
The Shulchan Aruch (Choshen Mishpat 45:3) says that one is bound by a shtar he signs on, even if he doesn’t know exactly what is written in it. Accordingly, if one party would later come to bais din and claim he didn’t know what was included in the shtar he signed, he still would be bound to adhere to the shtar.
There are other opinions that seem to contradict this view. Rav Shlomo Miller related that one of the reasons Rav Elyashiv was opposed to prenuptial agreements was because he was concerned that the parties would not really understand what they would be signing up for and, therefore, may not be 100% bound to the agreement. This seems to not be in line with the Shulchan Aruch’s ruling that one is bound by anything he signs regardless, so one should keep in mind that some Poskim may not always rule like this view of the Shulchan Aruch.