CURSING A FELLOW JEW
An outline of Bais HaVaad on the Parsha Shiur delivered
by: Rav Yitzchak Grossman
“ולא אבה ה’ אלוקיך לשמע אל בלעם ויהפך
ה’ אלוקיך לך את הקללה לברכה כי אהבך ה’ אלוקיך”
(דברים כג:ו)
The Torah forbids cursing another, as derived from the specific
prohibition to curse a cheresh (see Vayikra 19:14
and Rashi).
- What exactly is the reason
for this prohibition?- Rambam (Sefer HaMitzvos) explains that cursing another cultivates
bad midos and causes animosity.
- Sefer
HaChinuch notes that Rambam apparently believes that a curse cannot
intrinsically cause harm, but Sefer HaChinuch argues that a
curse can indeed harm another. He explains that Hashem gave us speech as a
heavenly power and that can indeed cause harm to others.
- Rav Yonasan Eibeshitz (in
the Urim V’tumim) agrees with the
Rambam that curses have no power. He derives this from the Gemara Makkos that states that those who killed b’shogeg and were exiled might pray for the Kohen Gadol
to die so they could go free. Only in that case might their tefilllos be effective since the Kohen gadol was partially responsible for the deaths
caused (he should have davened to prevent it), but
otherwise, the Gemara declares that such a curse is ineffective.
- Rambam (Sefer HaMitzvos) explains that cursing another cultivates
LIABILITY FOR DAMAGE CAUSED BY A CURSE
According to those that hold that a curse can cause harm, would one who thereby
injured another be liable to damages?
- Halachos
Ketanos considered that perhaps he is, and using words to harm
another may be equivalent to a maaseh. - Mahari Assad agrees as well
based on the Midrash that Moshe killed the Egyptian with the Shem Hameforash, and yet the Torah refers to it as
“striking.”. - Steipler Gaon cites a
number of proofs that killing by cursing would be patur, and
suggests that this is where one convinces the beis din
shel maaleh to punish someone. But when one harnesses the natural
powers of a curse itself to harm someone, he would not be chayav.